Support options

You may find it helpful to talk about your feelings with your partner, family members or friends, or with a hospital counsellor, social worker, psychologist or your religious or spiritual adviser.

Sometimes you may find that your friends and family do not know what to say to you. They may have trouble dealing with their feelings too. Some people may feel so uncomfortable that they avoid you. This can make you feel very lonely. You may feel able to approach your friends directly and tell them what you need. You may prefer to ask a close family member or a friend to talk with other people for you.

A serious illness may also cause practical and financial problems. You do not need to face this alone. Apart from offering emotional support, a social worker may be able to suggest useful tips to help. Ask at your hospital, your community health centre, or ring the Cancer Helpline.

Many services are available, including:

• financial assistance, which may be available for transport costs to medical appointments, prescription medicines, or through benefits or pensions. Contact the social worker at your hospital.
• home nursing care, which is available through district nursing, or through the local palliative care service - your doctor or hospital can arrange this.
• meals on wheels, home care services, and aids and appliances, which can make life easier - contact your hospital social worker, occupational therapist or physiotherapist, or your local council.